"...in order that you may be fully able to comprehend, with all the saints, what [is] the breadth and length and depth and height; thereby, knowing the love of the Messiah which surpasses knowledge; and be filled with all the fullness of God.
Every day of our lives, we need to ask ourselves, do we
Agape our wife/husband? (be totally and unconditionally committed, willing to give our life for them, become spiritually one with each other)
Phileo our wife/husband? (be Friendly, constantly develop your friendship/relationship)
Storge our wife/husband? (treat them as family, protective and encouraging their growth)
Aeros our wife/husband? (Romantic and sexual commitment)
This is how God views Love and how God Loves Us. Have you ever wondered why so many marriages end up in divorce? It's because most we don't Agape, Phileo, Storge and Aeros each other. We just love, according to our own definition.
....and that's what you'll find, When You Search For The Truth.